Limb Lengthening Forum
Community Hangout => Off Topic => Topic started by: Penguinn on August 31, 2016, 08:18:05 AM
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Sorry if this has been asked before. Can any Americans give me insight?
Also how's Bay Area, SF in terms of height?
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Big coastal cities seem to have a smaller average height, and from experience the larger people are concentrated in the upper midwest like Minnesota, Wisconsin, and the Dakotas due to the high concentration of people with Scandinavian ancestry.You'll see a lot of short people in the bay area.
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Nice, I plan on moving to Bay Area eventually and don't wanna feel like a *total* midget at 5'5.
What about Oregon?
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Nice, I plan on moving to Bay Area eventually and don't wanna feel like a *total* midget at 5'5.
What about Oregon?
I haven't been there, but generally cities with a large Latino population will make short guys stick out less, so Los Angeles and San Diego are good options.
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I felt a bit more "normal" when i visited family in a Chicago.
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Chicago's short? Are you sure?
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Penguinn,
I've lived (or worked in for extended periods) a lot of places in the US.
Where I felt short at 5'7.5:
South Dakota
North Dakota
Minnesota
Iowa
Nebraska (except Omaha)
Illinois
Where I felt very average in the US:
Texas
Oregon
Washington State
California
Colorado
Wyoming
Montana
Utah
Nevada
Florida
Specific cities I felt most comfortable in, height wise:
Omaha, Nebraska
Seattle, Washington
Vancouver, Washington
Los Angeles, California
San Fransisco, California
Dallas, Texas
Houston, Texas
Austin, Texas
Denver, Colorado
Miami, Florida
Portland, Oregon
These are all large diverse cities with larger Hispanic, Asian, and Indian populations.
By far my favorite area in the country is the Pacific Northwest, which is Washington State and Oregon. I personally will be moving to Vancouver Washington in the near future, as it is very close to both Seattle, WA and Portland, Ore, but is a much cheaper place to live than either of those cities.
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Chicago's short? Are you sure?
Remember where im coming from.
I think it's more about consistency of people height where i'm living. When i have been in a chicago i could just see people similar height and age to me which was nice since here chance to spot any young 5'5 guy is close to none.
Never claimed that its a short city i just felt a bit taller there lol.
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Chicago's short? Are you sure?
I'm gonna disagree that they are shorter there. It's a large city though, so it's pretty diverse.
I've been to Chicago a lot, in fact I will be catching a flight there later this week for work.
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Remember where im coming from.
I think it's more about consistency of people height where i'm living. When i have been in a chicago i could just see people similar height and age to me which was nice since here chance to spot any young 5'5 guy is close to none.
This I agree with.
I've said it before here, but living in a diverse area is a huge thing for us shorter guys. Just like myspaceboyfriend, I live in an area where I can go a long time without seeing someone my height or shorter.
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These are all large diverse cities with larger Hispanic, Asian, and Indian populations.
By far my favorite area in the country is the Pacific Northwest, which is Washington State and Oregon. I personally will be moving to Vancouver Washington in the near future, as it is very close to both Seattle, WA and Portland, Ore, but is a much cheaper place to live than either of those cities.
Thank you, that was very detailed. :)
Is Bay Area very diverse? I have some family there so it's my first option if I wanna be in US. I'm very cool knowing I'll always be short even at 5'5 post LL but I don't wanna be a midget. :P
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Thank you, that was very detailed. :)
Is Bay Area very diverse? I have some family there so it's my first option if I wanna be in US. I'm very cool knowing I'll always be short even at 5'5 post LL but I don't wanna be a midget. :P
No problem man.
Yeah, it is very diverse. It's one of the most expensive places to live in the country though.
Edit: Best advice I can give you man is live along the west coast or the southern border. I'm not familiar with the east coast that much. I've been there, NYC, Boston, etc...but not long enough to get a feel for it.
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After the apartment prices in Mumbai, no apartment is too expensive.
If one literally transferred their dollars to rupees, which should already give you a huge advantage, a good 2 bedroom apartment in a good area would cost $500K to a million. And in an excellent, sea-facing area...4-5 times that. India is cheap everywhere else but houses in big cities, goddamn. Blame the population.
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Edit: Best advice I can give you man is live along the west coast or the southern border. I'm not familiar with the east coast that much. I've been there, NYC, Boston, etc...but not long enough to get a feel for it.
SF's my plan anyway. Much appreciated.
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SF's my plan anyway. Much appreciated.
Just don't live in the Dakota's/Minnesota area, ok?
My God, what do they put in the water here?
Whatever it is, it makes people very tall, and very, very stupid.
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Interesting information. I agree for most of the cities mentioned here
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Just don't live in the Dakota's/Minnesota area, ok?
My God, what do they put in the water here?
Whatever it is, it makes people very tall, and very, very stupid.
Hey CCMidwest, thanks for that incredibly detailed contribution above in the post.
What would you say about Michigan? Because Michigan's quite close (geographically) to the states you mentioned.
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Nope I'm from Sammamish WA and I didn't feel comfortable at all with 5'7. Even now at 5'11.5 I'm feeling just average.
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I am from a major east coast American city (NY / DC / Philly / Boston). One thing I've noticed is that, while the average height in these areas is indeed lower due to the immigrants, the white / upper middle class population is exceptionally tall. I would say the average young man is around 5'11, maybe even 6'. Indeed, just last Friday I was out with 10 of my friends (10 guys, also some girls) and I was the only guy under 6' at 5'10.
When you walk around the wealthy residential neighborhoods or the financial district of this city, the average height is noticeably higher than the touristy areas (mostly American tourists but plenty of international people) or middle / working class neighborhoods. In the office building I work, which is full of investment banks, law firms, software companies etc, I feel short at 5'10, even with a half inch wedge in my heel.
At my major east coast university, I noticed that most of the kids from wealthy suburbs of the major east coast cities tended to be higher. Often times, I would wear timberland when going to parties to make up for my relative shortness, and I did notice I got more female attention when I wore them. I really do think 6' is about average for upper middle class white men nowadays.
Anyway, this is why I would like to get a good 6 cm adjustment, even at my average to slightly tall height, as a person can be tall for the population and even tall for their region and still be noticeably shorter than their peers.
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There are more average height/tall users on this forum than actual short people lmao. I can't imagine how many doctors who operate on the non-short people are laughing at them after they put them under. As someone who is 5'11, if I found out one of my friends at this height got leg lengthening I would heckle them for the rest of their life. Thanks for the entertainment guys.
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I really do think 6' is about average for upper middle class white men nowadays.
What goes on in your head does not match reality. You're insecure so you focus on anyone who is taller than you, and it makes you believe that there are more tall people than there are actually present. Not to menton that because you view the top of heads from eye level you greatly over estimate the heights of those around you.
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There are more average height/tall users on this forum than actual short people lmao. I can't imagine how many doctors who operate on the non-short people are laughing at them after they put them under. As someone who is 5'11, if I found out one of my friends at this height got leg lengthening I would heckle them for the rest of their life. Thanks for the entertainment guys.
Man what is your story for being here lol. I can kinda appreciate it though, not gonna lie.
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Man what is your story for being here lol. I can kinda appreciate it though, not gonna lie.
Saw a thread pointing to r/short on r/subredditdrama, and there I saw posts from guys who are 5'9 - 6'0 talking about getting leg lengthening and this forum and another were mentioned. The other one is kinda dead and threads like this are funny.
To me getting your legs lengthened at 5'9 and up is beyond silly. When you're that height, money/success in general is the primary factor that determines respect from peers and success with women. A 6'0 guy post-CLL with less money after blowing $75,000 - $120,000 on this will not be looked at in a better light than the 5'9+ guy who used that money on a nice car or an investment.
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Nearly every time I take a rough census of the men around me (while hanging out, at work etc.) I notice that the average height is close to 6'. That friend group, as I mentioned is almost entirely 6' to 6'2". My roommates in college were on average 6'; the last 10 guys I lived with, 3 were shorter and 5 were taller. The office i work in, with 10 men, has 3 shorter / the same height as me and 7 taller than me. I am very objective in my observations. It seems like 5'10 (my height) is roughly the 40th percentile for my peers thus average must be 5'11 or even 6'.
The average height for young white men is 5'10.5". If you assume that the poorer half are closer to the rest of the population (5'9") then the other half must be 5'11" to 6' to make up for that shortness. And yes, height and socioeconomic status have an obvious connection.
As for you making fun of a 5'11 guy for having the surgery, I agree that most people would have that reaction, hence why I wouldn't tell a soul and just make the transition by hunching over / wearing flat soled shoes for a while.
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Saw a thread pointing to r/short on r/subredditdrama, and there I saw posts from guys who are 5'9 - 6'0 talking about getting leg lengthening and this forum and another were mentioned. The other one is kinda dead and threads like this are funny.
To me getting your legs lengthened at 5'9 and up is beyond silly. When you're that height, money/success in general is the primary factor that determines respect from peers and success with women. A 6'0 guy post-CLL with less money after blowing $75,000 - $120,000 on this will not be looked at in a better light than the 5'9+ guy who used that money on a nice car or an investment.
Unfortunately your opinion is just that: your opinion. It does not matter what you think. You should find something better to do as I promise you will be booted for your rudeness and minimal value-add.
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Dude i'm living in one of the tallest countries in the world and there is no way 6 foot is an average.
There are more average height/tall users on this forum than actual short people lmao. I can't imagine how many doctors who operate on the non-short people are laughing at them after they put them under.
Well if they just want to get taller for the sake of it who cares. But i gotta agree that average height people blaming their every failure because they are not the allmighty 6' is quite silly.
As someone who is 5'11, if I found out one of my friends at this height got leg lengthening I would heckle them for the rest of their life.
I wish i could say something like that : (
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Unfortunately your opinion is just that: your opinion. It does not matter what you think. You should find something better to do as I promise you will be booted for your rudeness and minimal value-add.
My opinion would be in line with just about any psych who saw you for an evaluation. If you're so fragile as to be unable to bear anyone finding out you had this surgery, and can't stand that other people would call you out for thinking of doing something stupid, what makes you possibly think you could handle what leg lengthening and recovery requires?
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My opinion would be in line with just about any psych who saw you for an evaluation. If you're so fragile as to be unable to bear anyone finding out you had this surgery, and can't stand that other people would call you out for thinking of doing something stupid, what makes you possibly think you could handle what leg lengthening and recovery requires?
k thanks
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k thanks
You're welcome :)
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Average height statistics are pretty accurate... It's all in your head... If everything is fine with your life and you have such a great self-esteem, why would you even try to improve yourself physically by such drastic means? What will happen once you will be 6' and suddenly walk by a bunch of young dutch tourists which most of them will be likely taller than you? Your experience in life was better wearing timberland boots? So wear those and have fun....
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Average height statistics are pretty accurate... It's all in your head... If everything is fine with your life and you have such a great self-esteem, why would you even try to improve yourself physically by such drastic means? What will happen once you will be 6' and suddenly walk by a bunch of young dutch tourists which most of them will be likely taller than you? Your experience in life was better wearing timberland boots? So wear those and have fun....
I have already provided the mathematical basis for my 5'11 to 6' average height belief. The average young white American male is 5'10.5. Factor in upper middle class social economic status and its probably more like 5'11 to 5'11.5.
I wear a suit 90% of my time in public. I don't know if Timbs would quite match the rest of my outfit.
Why is it that there are plenty of people who think average height people must not have this surgery, as if it is fine for short people but terrible for average height people?
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Why is it that there are plenty of people who think average height people must not have this surgery, as if it is fine for short people but terrible for average height people?
Depends WHY you want to have this surgery.
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Depends WHY you want to have this surgery.
In a sentence, the exact same reason every guy here would do this: to fulfill my narcissistic desires.
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First mistake is thinking that a guy your height wants leg lengthening for the same reason a guy who is 5'4 would want it.
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In a sentence, the exact same reason every guy here would do this: to fulfill my narcissistic desires.
First of all, speak for yourself. Second... you ever didnt get a job/got fired because of your height? Because people like me or Kilokahn did.
So no, not everybody does it for their "narcissistic desires". There are people that just don't want to face the stigma of being short stature.
But i don't think you just want to be taller for the sake of it, especially when you are focusing that much on someone else height when you are average yourself.
Anyway, i recommend you to invest in a shrink first, you need to do it anyway if you are going for surgery like LL.
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist. If you are willing to do an expensive, risky, surgery that will only improve your appearance, then you are obsessed with your appearance. Whether you are 5'0 or 6'0, if you are considering this surgery then you are a narcissist.
I also don't appreciate the ad-hominem attacks nor understand what they "give" you. I will be the better man and just ignore them though ;).
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist. If you are willing to do an expensive, risky, surgery that will only improve your appearance, then you are obsessed with your appearance. Whether you are 5'0 or 6'0, if you are considering this surgery then you are a narcissist.
I also don't appreciate the ad-hominem attacks nor understand what they "give" you. I will be the better man and just ignore them though ;).
You still didnt give me a reason behind your obssession which is crucial here. You want to do this surgery only because you "have some people at job that are taller than me".
But guys that are 5'5 and under it are shorter than almost everybody so comparing them to 6 footer is just freakin silly.
Problems with job, respect, clothes and don't even start me on romantic interests. Think about being different than everybody around you.
But whatever, this forum starts to be /r/short mumbling constantly that if you are not 6 foot you are worth nothing. Ehh.
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I never said or implied any of that.
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You said that everybody has the same reason, that's enough for me.
But apparently people with their limbs amputated or body burns which got depressed over their appearance are narcissistic lmao.
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Now you're rambling and drawing false equivalencies.
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist.
It's your statement, not mine.
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Sorry, I didn't realize that I had to spell out the obvious exceptions...
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Saw a thread pointing to r/short on r/subredditdrama, and there I saw posts from guys who are 5'9 - 6'0 talking about getting leg lengthening and this forum and another were mentioned. The other one is kinda dead and threads like this are funny.
To me getting your legs lengthened at 5'9 and up is beyond silly. When you're that height, money/success in general is the primary factor that determines respect from peers and success with women. A 6'0 guy post-CLL with less money after blowing $75,000 - $120,000 on this will not be looked at in a better light than the 5'9+ guy who used that money on a nice car or an investment.
Was it this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/4t0tjr/a_wee_bit_o_drama_in_rshort_after_a_man_says_he/
Because, honestly, in relation to narcissism... this thread is gold. It's such a damn good thread to read through lol. Some good and some bad... but mostly good because it gives you an outside perspective, which is nice.
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Sorry, I didn't realize that I had to spell out the obvious exceptions...
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I have nothing really more to say to you lol.
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist. If you are willing to do an expensive, risky, surgery that will only improve your appearance, then you are obsessed with your appearance. Whether you are 5'0 or 6'0, if you are considering this surgery then you are a narcissist.
This is blatantly false, and you know it.
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Hey CCMidwest, thanks for that incredibly detailed contribution above in the post.
What would you say about Michigan? Because Michigan's quite close (geographically) to the states you mentioned.
Never been there, sorry.
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Was it this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/4t0tjr/a_wee_bit_o_drama_in_rshort_after_a_man_says_he/
Because, honestly, in relation to narcissism... this thread is gold. It's such a damn good thread to read through lol. Some good and some bad... but mostly good because it gives you an outside perspective, which is nice.
The first thing I noticed reading that thread is how many people stating that men over 6' are the minority...
According to this forum, they are all liars lol. Don't they know 6' is average?
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist. If you are willing to do an expensive, risky, surgery that will only improve your appearance, then you are obsessed with your appearance. Whether you are 5'0 or 6'0, if you are considering this surgery then you are a narcissist.
I also don't appreciate the ad-hominem attacks nor understand what they "give" you. I will be the better man and just ignore them though ;).
Do you see a difference between a poor person putting himself through hell for a lot of money, and a millionaire putting himself through hell for a lot of money?
It's your body anyway, if you think it's worth it, do your thing.
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According to this forum, they are all liars lol. Don't they know 6' is average?
Maybe in some manlet city. We in Canberra are at least 8' average.
Unfortunately people see what they want to see.
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If you are obsessed with your own appearance you are a narcissist. If you are willing to do an expensive, risky, surgery that will only improve your appearance, then you are obsessed with your appearance. Whether you are 5'0 or 6'0, if you are considering this surgery then you are a narcissist.
I also don't appreciate the ad-hominem attacks nor understand what they "give" you. I will be the better man and just ignore them though ;).
I can definitely say I am as I am at the tip of 5"9 in the morning. I have had hair transplants, gone to expensive dermatologist and know gone so far to desire a limb lengthening surgery.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iK0cjTfbQTw
Basically doing all this so I can be the image to people of what I feel like inside.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKFyI7pqqLg
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Sorry if this has been asked before. Can any Americans give me insight?
Also how's Bay Area, SF in terms of height?
Lots of asians, so you will be tall. I just moved from the silicon Valley. SF has a lot of short people.
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I have to chime in here. First off, making fun of anyone for things out of their control (height, skin color, family, country of origin etc.) is despicable and ignorant. Second, everyone has their own reason for having cosmetic procedures done but it's mostly due to an inferiority complex as a result of enduring systematic discrimination and bias. Discrimination sucks for everyone but it is NOT, I repeat absolutely NOT the same degree all across the board. At 5'10, getting LL is more about introducing a variable to produce net benefits (clinch that top 10% alpha status) a guy at 5'6, getting LL is about removing a harmful variable (getting sh!t on for being short). A guy who gets crap at 5'10-5'11 for being too "short" doesn't hold himself to the same level of shame as a guy who is 5'7 and below. The guy at 5'10 is well aware he is in the average height for most countries and above average in others so he can immediately write his accuser off as irrational and in the wrong (person's character/beliefs about self remain validated and intact). However, the guy below 5'7 KNOWS he's short and whenever he is insulted about his height he is complete agreement with that insult....do you know how much cognitive dissonance is created when you've been insulted by someone and you both know it's true? It's a very bitter pill to swallow. You can't call them crazy, or wrong, or refute their argument because they're stating objective facts not some abstract statement open to interpretation and analysis.
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I find that the more south you go, the shorter people seem to be. In you're in the Midwest or especially the northeast people are usually taller than average. I've been to Kentucky/Georgia/Tennessee/Alabama and I felt more like an average girl whereas I feel extremely small when I'm in the aforementioned areas, even with heels on.
States and cities with higher Latino and Asian populations have a smaller average height, like everyone else said. More white and black population usually means taller people. Out in the west you'll probably see shorter people too since, again, there are a lot of Latino and Asian people living there.
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Saw a thread pointing to r/short on r/subredditdrama, and there I saw posts from guys who are 5'9 - 6'0 talking about getting leg lengthening and this forum and another were mentioned. The other one is kinda dead and threads like this are funny.
To me getting your legs lengthened at 5'9 and up is beyond silly. When you're that height, money/success in general is the primary factor that determines respect from peers and success with women. A 6'0 guy post-CLL with less money after blowing $75,000 - $120,000 on this will not be looked at in a better light than the 5'9+ guy who used that money on a nice car or an investment.
I've been saying the same thing. It's insane, isn't it.
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I've been saying the same thing. It's insane, isn't it.
He is saying it for average height people... You say it to people oh all heights....