Limb Lengthening Forum
Limb Lengthening Surgery => Limb Lengthening Discussions => Topic started by: stanmarsh on March 12, 2016, 07:59:51 AM
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Hypothetical question:
X will commit suicide without LL. X is not suddenly depressed or emotional. X has thought it out and realized that he hates himself for his height. X rationalizes that nothing improve by looking at how other shorter persons in his family have fared and still struggle with height issues. X realizes it is not right to have children and be an insecure father/ husband.
X is positive it is his 60℅ of his problems. The rest he is ready to suck up and live. X can try out LL but it will set him back emotionally and career wise for about a year. X is not sure if he can tolerate that. X will also not be able to tolerate inability to walk normally, do basic athletic stuff after recovery. If this doesn't go well X will lose friends also. X is worried that committing suicide might be hard for someone disabled. Even if everything goes well, X is worried how he will hide it from everyone.
X is generally a happy, social person except for this dark corner in his mind. Is LL an option for X?
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Depends
That's why many doctors now require psych clearance.
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yes if you are motivated
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kamikaze :o :o :o
go big or go down into the flames of hell
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It's X's life, if X think x want LL just do it. You said X is positive so why think so much of negative things. No need for suicide because there's always a way.
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ANd aren't we all depressed, or unhappy??
Question: What kind of person voluntarily agrees to have both his legs broken and stretched? Someone who's content and very happy? Or someone that's miserable?
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ANd aren't we all depressed, or unhappy??
Question: What kind of person voluntarily agrees to have both his legs broken and stretched? Someone who's content and very happy? Or someone that's miserable?
depressed and unhappy isnt the same
Depression is much more violent
still here many seem optimistic about ll
we are sensitive
me what I see outside is that nobody (or very few people) is happy
they always have a reason to suffer: they live like crabs, are ugly, are idiots, are single
people do not know what to do with their lives, especially as the lack of spirituality even the sinks
our lives are void but we are improving
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many here are naively optimistic .
the ending usually isn't quite what was expected
At least for my case I know what to expect me
it will be a difficult stage but I think positive for me
after I'll forget this fk complex
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I have depression (diagnosed and everything) and I was fine doing LL
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Hey everyone chill out.
My questions are very valid. Just because it's something that takes your mind away from your dream LL expectations, does not mean the same for everyone . be realistic.
if you guys can not live happily being short how can you be happy being disabled if something goes wrong? What is your plan if that happens???
most people here might have some social issues, dating issues, and esteem issues. how the f can you live happily if each of these things deteriorate after LL ? I don't understand what the ideal mind set of someone to under go LL should be.
I do not understand how crimsontide will be OK with a lower amputated when he couldn't be OK with being a little shorter