Limb Lengthening Forum
Limb Lengthening Surgery => Limb Lengthening Patients Experiences => Topic started by: Rockstarz5 on December 09, 2023, 02:14:16 AM
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Im 1.65 on the edge. My height disphorya is big so dont whant to talk to people, but at the same time I want to do this and kind afraid to be honest, be alone, with broken legs.
1) after the surgery do you really overcome the height dysphoria?
2) it is that bad really be alone doing this? How do you manage that?
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I fought with my family for the surgery for 4 years, but they finally accepted it because I was being driven to suicide.Reached from 165.7 cm to 173.5 cm
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Currently lengthening. I’m at home with my family. Everyone in my family supports me. I told every friend and all of my university class too.
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How do you feel now?.. did you cure about that mental stress of being short and suicide.. Im kind on the same road I guess,
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he should better follow his childhood hero stalin and do it
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They attack Stalin because he destroyed their beloved Führer.
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I really understand you, I was a religious person before I felt this way, but when life started throwing punches at me, my religious view turned into atheism. After realizing that appearance is very important in the world, I had no choice but to have surgery. People in the world judge each other by their appearance. My thoughts continued to attack me every day. To summarize: You are afraid of a ckroach landing on your hand, but you are not afraid of a ladybug landing on your hand.
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That's why I love Stalin, because he transformed from a hole into the indestructible will of the working class. A poet says:Stalin, only your ideas can be better than yours.
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If you want to have surgery, I can give you the names of doctors you should stay away from. I can also give you the names of people who have very good ethical values in their jobs and would not trade their jobs for money. I mean doctors who are more affordable and do a good job.
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Yes, I feel valuable now. Before the surgery, I felt very worthless. If you do not have surgery, this obsession will follow you throughout your life. Unfortunately, it is impossible to overcome it. Albert Einstein says: Overcoming prejudice is more difficult than splitting the atom.Everything in the world is made of matter. People define what they feel when inserting their genitals into someone else's ass as love. They are hypocritical fools.
Coming to what I feel now, I am now a mentally strong man. My height obsession made me worthless and alienated me. I no longer complain about my height. I have a great revenge to take from life.Frankly, as someone who was the same height as you before the surgery, I want you to overcome this obsession. The world is a very short time and you should look and live the way you want. Never be afraid of broken legs, the pain only lasts 3 days, but if you cannot overcome this obsession, it will continue to bother you for life.
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The easiest thing is to lose, the point is to try to win. In fact, one should die fighting instead of being captured without fighting.
-Ernesto Che Guevera
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Stalin=Hitler
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2014/aug/06/devils-alliance-hitlers-pact-stalin-1938-1941-roger-moorhouse-review
And you are little delusional retard LOL
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I did femurs with Paley 2-3 years ago
Changed my life
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Yes, I feel valuable now. Before the surgery, I felt very worthless. If you do not have surgery, this obsession will follow you throughout your life. Unfortunately, it is impossible to overcome it. Albert Einstein says: Overcoming prejudice is more difficult than splitting the atom.Everything in the world is made of matter. People define what they feel when inserting their genitals into someone else's ass as love. They are hypocritical fools.
Coming to what I feel now, I am now a mentally strong man. My height obsession made me worthless and alienated me. I no longer complain about my height. I have a great revenge to take from life.Frankly, as someone who was the same height as you before the surgery, I want you to overcome this obsession. The world is a very short time and you should look and live the way you want. Never be afraid of broken legs, the pain only lasts 3 days, but if you cannot overcome this obsession, it will continue to bother you for life.
Honestly you're pathetic. It's you who derives worth from their height, and projected that on everyone
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u should check out betz bone and do 7.5 cm on the femur. lengthen more and it start to look disproportional. it would help alot with your height in the mean time. but it is alot of money for that. u gotta sacrifice a little like being alone in ur room to gain a little more height.
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Im 1.65 on the edge. My height disphorya is big so dont whant to talk to people, but at the same time I want to do this and kind afraid to be honest, be alone, with broken legs.
1) after the surgery do you really overcome the height dysphoria?
2) it is that bad really be alone doing this? How do you manage that?
Hi OP!
I was 165cm pre surgery, and now stand 177cm after doing 11,5cm on femurs.
I have 100% overcome my height dysphoria after reaching my new height. Pre surgery I was a very confident guy, and developed very good social skills due to my lack in height. Because I was always the shortest man and even person in a room or in any social gathering I felt I had to "prove" my self in other areas. Pre surgery I probably wasn't very aware of this, but thinking back and feeling the way I do now. It is very obvious I was in fact "compensating" for my short stature. Another thing I struggled with, was that I never felt like an adult.
Post surgery I am a much calmer and relaxed person, and I seldom feel the need to "prove" my self anymore. I am much more confident in who I am, and also just don't care as much anymore. I don't feel the need to compensate for being short, since I no longer am short. And maybe most importantly I feel like an adult. Being 177cm and wearing shoes with a small heel (like Chelsea boots) I am pretty much average height. Sure there a plenty of men who are taller than me. But even men at 2 meters tall are a little less than a head taller than me, rather that a head and a half.
From feeling and being treated like a real adult to my massive change in female attraction, this has truly changed my life. I have written about how women now see me after surgery multiple times in my diary. So read that for many detailed encounters. But long story short, I have gone from being a below average guy when it comes to attracting women to now competing with my best looking friends who always get female attention. I have had more sxxual encounters in the past two months that the 13 years prior to my surgery. At this rate I will surpass my who life time accumulated sxxual experiences from age 13 to 36 in another few months time. I've gone from never ever being approached by women to randoms girls at clubs straight out making out with me (yes, this has happened multiple times in the past few months).
I told my closest friends and family, and I would highly recommend you do the same. I think doing this all alone without any support or anybody to talk to is damn near impossible. It's hard enough on its own, so don't make it harder. I haven't been judged once, and after being off the crutches for a little more than a year - I or others seldom talk about my surgery. It is all in the past.
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The most accurate and honest respond since a lot of time on this forum
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Im 1.65 on the edge. My height disphorya is big so dont whant to talk to people, but at the same time I want to do this and kind afraid to be honest, be alone, with broken legs.
1) after the surgery do you really overcome the height dysphoria?
2) it is that bad really be alone doing this? How do you manage that?
1. Most likely yes. Either way you will learn to appreciate your body and your health more.
2. Whilst not impossible, it is not advisable to do it all by yourself, even if you have weight bearing nails. The physical limitations are one thing, but don't underestimate the psychological toll this will take on you.
Anxiety, depression, even panic are all common. If you have no one to talk to or ask for help, it will make it so much harder. Don't go in there all by yourself please.
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1. Most likely yes. Either way you will learn to appreciate your body and your health more.
2. Whilst not impossible, it is not advisable to do it all by yourself, even if you have weight bearing nails. The physical limitations are one thing, but don't underestimate the psychological toll this will take on you.
Anxiety, depression, even panic are all common. If you have no one to talk to or ask for help, it will make it so much harder. Don't go in there all by yourself please.
It would be easier to have someone there helping you, I agree. But I did it alone (both times) and didn't feel that being alone was overly difficult.
If you are using a weight-bearing nail, it is good to stay in an area of town where you can walk around occasionally and talk to people. I stayed in a central part of Athens and there were plenty of people around to speak to. I would try to go to a cafe every day for lunch, just to get out of the house. That helps get your mind off of LL. If you also have a job/ task you are working on throughout your lengthening period, that also helps a lot.
Even on days when I didn't feel like physically walking outside, I just went outside with my wheelchair and then went to grab lunch/ coffee. Those things help, trust me.
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Honestly you're pathetic. It's you who derives worth from their height, and projected that on everyone
The words “pathetic” and bone shortening shouldn’t be ushered out of a mouth like yours. Gtfo this forum and go attempt your asinine as fk bone shortening surgery, ya muppet.
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The words “pathetic” and bone shortening shouldn’t be ushered out of a mouth like yours. Gtfo this forum and go attempt your asinine as fk bone shortening surgery, ya muppet.
Almost as pathetic as you, little man