Hi everyone, I’m a 32 years old male living between France and Thailand, and my current height is 162.5cm.
Some background on my motivations (feel free to skip this part if you’re only interested in the surgery experience itself !)
As I child, being constantly the smallest kid in class I urged my parents to see if anything could be done. Doctors kept saying I would reach an average height (between 170 and 175) so my parents dropped it. Up until about 16 when I kept noticing that the height gap was only getting bigger. This time around, the Dr said my plates had fused and so my height at the time (162) would pretty much be my final height.
It was definitely a bummer but nothing to be depressed about. I’ve been very lucky in life in general, and I’m quite a joyful and optimistic person.
I always thought that height would be this characteristic of mine that wasn’t the best, but that I would never let it define me as a person, you gotta play the cards you’re dealt with.
Being short hasn’t prevented me from having really good friends / social life, many beautiful girlfriends, and securing a decent career.
Most of the time I don’t even mind/think about it, the only thing that does reminds me about it really, is the dating scene. Flirting/dating/sex is very important to me and I think my face is pretty attractive so I’m definitely able to get attention, but many girls that I’m into just alright disqualify me because of height. I remember back when I was 14, many senior girls would joke about the fact that they were “making a reservation on me" until I grow and am taller. Their comments hyped me up much, but as the years went by and my height didn’t change, I realised it would remain an unfulfilled assumption.
I’ve often times enjoyed the bar/clubs nightlife but attracting in those environments has definitely a challenge !
I always thought: do best with what you have. Although if you CAN improve things, which this surgery allows, at a reasonable cost to benefit ratio, then why not ?
So in the background I’ve always been interested in the surgery, lurking on the web. I saw that it was getting quite popular and that the risks, even though real, are definitely manageable. So I always thought to myself that if one day I had the money I would do it. This time has come !
Also it’s always weird/funny to see the 170+ guys here (basically my desired height or more) doing this surgery. I think to myself like: damn what would I give to be this height (actually quite close to the average) without doing anything. I guess, the same way many of my friends/family don’t understand why would I go through it, I guess it’s a matter of perspective.
I know that at 170 I’ll still be short. But as height is normally distributed I would go from 2% male percentile to 21% in France, and 11% male percentile to 48% (so basically average height) in Thailand. Most importantly I’ll go from being slightly shorter than the average female height to taller than most (88%+).
Also I don’t think I would look proportional going for more as my wingspan is 162.
In the end I don’t expect it to change my life. It’s an improvement, and I‘ll take what I can get !
Why Dr.Giotikas ?I was initially looking into options in Europe and for a long time my eyes were set on Betz intitute. Lately the Turkish clinics have been very good at communicating, there's a lot of YouTube content with patient experiences too, which was interesting, but after reading so many bad things about them pretty much everywhere other than their own content I quickly steered away. Although I do wish more clinics would take example and be more proactive on their communication, especially videos of patient's end to end experiences, I think it’s a format that works quite well.
Anyway, after a bit more research I came across Dr.Giotikas, his reputation is quite good, and the price was about 10k less than the Betz Institute. Also recovery wise, Athens sounds much better than this lonely city in Germany.
Surgery planSurgery is planned on February 25th.
My goal height is 170 if possible so +7.5cm, using the internal G-nail method on the femurs.
I booked an Airbnb for 1 month in Athens, and depending on how I feel I’ll extend or finish the lengthening back in home in France, btw what do you guys think about that, is it feasible or should I be close the Doctor and clinic for as long as possible ?
My best friend will be with me in Athens to help, which I super grateful for.
Preparation Been reading more regularly here and there about what to expect (timeline, pain, recovery, etc)
I’ve started the stretching routine that was sent to me by Dr.Giotikas’s team. Surprised at the flexibility improvements in only a few days !
Bought vitamin D3 + K2 and magnesium to help with bone healing.
If you guys have more tips/information for me to better prepare let me know !
What to Expect from This ThreadI’ll keep this thread updated with everything:
* Pre-surgery thoughts and preparations
* Surgery day and the immediate recovery period
* Post-op pain management and challenges
* Daily updates during the lengthening phase
* Reflections on the physical and psychological aspects of the process
If you have any questions, feel free to ask, and I’ll do my best to answer.
Closing NoteReading threads such as
http://www.limblengtheningforum.com/index.php?topic=85962.0 or other patient’s threads with severe pain or complications (even with Giotikas) definitely made me think twice, but after carefully weighing the pros and cons, I’m ready to go through with it.
I’m both excited and nervous about what’s ahead, but I know this forum is a great place for advice and encouragement. Thanks in advance for following my journey, and I hope this thread can be a valuable resource for the community on the long term!